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Tuesday 22 August 2017

women vs men?

nowadays, u tell me..
women had conquered most of men's career field. name it. pilot? we got pilotwomen. engineer? we also have it. mechanic? yes there are. soldier? Fighter? there involved women too. In fact, women now own the world. say, we can do whatever men can do. thus, do we need to claim this as GENDER EQUALITY? what are we trying to proof to? Women are not weak! Yes. we are not weak but,
WOMEN you don't have to be so much powerful over men,

Arrijalu qowwamuna 'alan nisa'

Allah says in the Qur'an
Men are caretakers (qawwamuna) of women, because of that through which Allah has favored one over another, and because of what they spend of their property (Qur'an 4:34). 

Allah had raised our level (read : refer to me, us as women) to the better place (understand as high level).
We will never be alone. Men must care, guide and respect us!

Islam has mould the good guidelines to ensure women never be the one who abandoned.
who did not follow the guidelines is the one who wronged!  Not the religion.

Men must do the favor of giving nafkah zahir & batin, support, good place to live and good clothes to wear, etc
in fact,
women can inherited the properties with qadr. there you see, how special we are as women.

the things are, we sometimes feel so pity to let the men prepare all the things just to ensure we feel comfortable and happy , hence we try to ease the burden.

we overcome the lack by ourselves. that is tolerance. tolerance comes from good communication. you both men and women must facilitates clear communication. declare the stuff,  understand and accept the matters that we need to work together for raising a better life.

Gender equality issue is something that i can't brain.
Feminism? I don't understand this too.

as for me, we both need each other very much.
we rise together and live harmony.

The other matter about the bad man who become woman-beater, who tend to treat woman as an object,  you moron! you pissed me off.

But trust me,
we cant reproduce a baby without the combination sperm and ovum is it?
be a good mum when you have children.
Teach them with love. tell them how beautiful Islam it is.
InshaAllah. Allah will help us to protect our family.

#pleasenooffense
#thisaremyhumbleopinion


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